Thursday, June 28, 2012

Tenting Practice!

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Thank you L.L. Bean!!

When you think of a family camping trip, what runs through your mind? Probably a list of necessary items are the first thought. Tent, camp bags, bathing suits, extra clothes, lots of food and water, etc. And then come thoughts of a fun weekend filled with fishing, campfire food, and spending time together as a family by the fire. Yes?

When you live with Autism in your life, simple trips like this, and the thoughts that come along with it, can sometimes turn into a worrisome pattern of over thinking, and over packing. Well, for the parent, anyway.

This is because most people with Autism have a hard time with change. Transitioning to a new situation can sometimes lead to a melt down. Especially when those situations are nearly always the same. Bed time is one of those BIG situations.

So, when Mia and I received our package in the mail from L.L. Bean, courtesy of their Get Out(Fitted) Gear Giveaway in celebration of their 100th Year Anniversary, filled with gifts for new outdoor adventures, I was excited and nervous all at once. One of the items that this great company gave us was a brand new two person Adventure tent! Along with it came two new camp bags, headlamps, and a new hiking pack for Mia!

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Hey, this is like my hat, but brighter! 

Getting all of this great gear meant that I would be able to add to our list of outdoor adventures. Namely, camping! I’ve been wanting to camp with Mia for quite a while. Between finding the funds to invest in some necessary gear, and finding the right time to introduce her to the experience, it’s been a long wait. But thanks to L.L. Bean, we were one step closer! This, was the excitement part! Being able to fulfill my dream of introducing Mia to something else I love to do!

Then, of course, came my worries of how she would react to this new situation. While she’s been doing relatively well with transitioning to new experiences, this one made me very nervous. Bedtime has always been fairly ritualistic in our world. And of course, we always sleep in the same place, so my worry came from her adjusting to sleeping in something that bore no resemblance to home.

With that, I started a plan of attack. I knew that we should do a test run first to rule out the chance that sleeping in a tent might not agree with Mia. With this test run, I brought some of Mia’s favorite bedtime items. Number one being Froggy, her classical music playing stuffed friend. I also brought her favorite blanket, and her favorite pillow. My hope was that these familiar items would help her adjust to a not so familiar situation. Our test run would take place at Grammy and grampies house, just in case Mia couldn’t adjust.

We set up “camp”, had dinner with the grandparents, and then settled in for what I hoped would be a good night of slumber. Mia and I got into the tent, and I was happy to see her smiling from ear to ear! She laid down on her pillow, grabbed Froggy, and the classical rhythms commenced, Mia was not only completely comfortable in this unusual situation, but also completely mesmerized by the cocoon that we were in. She enjoyed the amount of fresh air we were able to breathe in, and she loved her new camp bag!

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Mia's right at home in our "mobile" home!

This is another one of those times in which I couldn’t be happier of Mia’s accomplishments! This particular accomplishment is that of adaptability. This little test run was just another sign that she has overcome this huge barrior that a lot of people with Autism deal with. Success!

It also means that we’ll be able to pack up and head for a REAL camping adventure!! Hmmm….. Where will we head to next?!

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

All The Generous People

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Mia loved the glitter and stickers in this card!! Thank you Steve! :)
Mia and I would like to take a few moments to say THANK YOU to the generous people who sent her a card for her birthday! Mia was very happy to see these cards in the mail, and was even more impressed that they were meant for her! Lol.

It always amazes me, the generosity that people have today. With this little endeavor, $35.00 was raised and will be put towards finding a cure for Tuberous Sclerosis!

Thank you to those who took the time to think of Mia on her birthday! We appreciate it greatly!

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A wonderful made for Mia card from the adorable Miss Joslyn! Thank you!

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Mia really liked this card from the beautiful Miss Erica and her mom Angela!
She really likes that she can look at things right through it! :D

Monday, June 18, 2012

When "Life Comes to Life"


~Richard Bach
Our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life.
Photo by Focus on You Photography
Six years ago today the love of my life was placed in my arms. Mia captured my heart in an instant, and my life has been filled with joy and wonder ever since. 

She has made so many accomplishments over the years, and though I say now that I couldn’t be prouder of her, I know that my pride in her will increase in the coming years, many times. Her determination, her strength, and perseverance despite all of the hurdles she faces, is astounding. Her laughter is contagious. Her smile is bright, filled with joy and love, and most assuredly sent from the heavens. Her love of life, adventure, and her ability to live in the now is inspiring.

To say that I love Mia is an understatement. Words can not express the feelings of adoration, endearment, joy, and affection that I hold in my heart for this little girl. I am blessed to have such a wonderful person to share my life with, to teach, to learn from, and to grow with. She has made my "life come to life"!

Happy birthday Mia! My love for you is limitless!

Photo by Focus on You Photography

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Beauty In The Burghal: Pettingill Park

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Pettingill Pond
Mia and I have been doing some more exploring around our new city surroundings. (Yes, so much that I’ve had a hard time sitting at the computer for more than a few minutes!)

We are very happy to have found this gem, within walking distance of our home! Pettingill Park offers many amenities that promote a healthy and active lifestyle.

There is a fishing pond available for kids 15 and younger. The town stocks it with trout, so the chances of the youngsters catching a fish are great! And, they do fishing derbies from time to time, encouraging families to get outside and enjoy the day!

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Camera shy?!
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This little guy nearly sat in our lap!
There are two playgrounds, one on either end of Pettingill Park Road.

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Playground one:
There are swings here too, they're to the left of this picture!
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Playground two:
To the left of this picture there is a swing set
There is a baseball field…

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A lit softball field…’

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And even, a one mile hiking trail!

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This park also offers the Hasty Community Center, which we have yet to be in, but have been told that it is a big gymnasium with basketball courts, locker rooms, and rec rooms. The gym is available to public use all year long!

In addition, there is an indoor ice arena, the Ingersoll Arena. It is open year round, and people can go learn to ice skate, and hockey games are played here as well.

It’s great to know that this is just down the road, so even if we only have an hour or two to spend outdoor after work/school, we can still get out and be home by supper time!
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Mia in the softball field. She loves room to run!