We've been working on something pretty big in Mia's world. Something that makes her feel even more like she's just your average kid. And she's nearly mastered the skill.
We've been working on, POTTY TRAINING!!!
How did this breakthrough come about?! Potty training was something I'd been working on over the years. But, when it wasn't being done the same way in every place that she went, she never grasped the concept. As one of Mia's goals in her I.E.P., potty training was added as a skill for her to learn. When asked how I thought Mia would best learn this skill, you can bet I gave my input!
First, Mia went from wearing pull ups all the time, to only wearing them at night. Big girl underwear during the day meant that every time she had an accident, she would feel it. And since she hates the feeling of wet clothes against her skin, I knew without a doubt that this was the best method to get Mia on her way to toileting success.
The transition from one to the other took her a while to get used to. Because she's a very tactile being, the pull up was a comfort she had grown accustomed to. Underwear left her feeling odd, as though nothing was there. For a bit, it was hard to get her to keep her pants up! But after she realized that she had no other choice but to wear these thin monstrosities, she gave up and taking her pants down!
Then, her school started taking her to the bathroom in short intervals through out the day. Though, because they were seemingly spending more time in the bathroom than anywhere else, they lengthened the amount of time between bathroom visits. The pattern was continued at home as well, and Mia only wore a pull up at night to prevent her from wetting the bed.
Because Mia has always had a hard time figuring out what her body is telling her (i.e. pain means something is wrong, this sensation means you have to go to the bathroom), I assumed it would take a while for her to catch on to these signals the body sends. But, as usual, she surprised me! In just a short couple of months, Mia went from six or seven accidents a day, to NONE! Minus the number two issue, which she's now catching on to as well.
Now, Mia is wearing big girl underwear to bed as well. She has no night time accidents, though now she wakes up confused in the middle of the night when she has the sensation to pee. Cutting back on fluids in the early evening and making sure she goes pee before bed time help, but once in a while she still has to get up. Though she might be a bit cranky about it, I'm proud that she knows when she's got to go!
And, in most recent weeks, she's been going number two on the potty as well!! Well, Some of the time anyways! She still hasn't quite figured out when she actually needs to go, and sometimes her seizure medications bind her up, making it even more difficult for her. But she's getting there!
I'm so excited for Mia's progress in this area! And even more excited that when the weather warms up, I can start teaching her a new bathroom skill. HOW TO PEE IN THE WOODS!! (Yes, her teachers laughed when I exclaimed this notion!)
What, that's a normal motherly reaction, right?!
Congrats!! If it makes you and Mia feel any better, I am cranky when I have to get to pee in the middle of the night too.
ReplyDeleteThanks B.A.! She's slowly getting out of being cranky when she does wake up, but I can understand too. Who really wants to get up in the middle of the night? Lol
DeleteBravo Mia!!! :o)
ReplyDeleteThanks Cris! She's very proud of herself, and I'm extremely proud of her too! :)
DeleteAshley and Mia, this is clearly the best post I have read in a great while. I am so proud of you both for your hard work and for not just giving up. That is the easy way out and so often the choice that people with disabilities or family members take. My Grandson, Jacoby, is improving with this same problem, but, still has issues. Your post if very much a vision for our family to proudly look forward, too.
ReplyDeleteTake care of you and Mia for me!
Thank you Mel! This is one area that I've been working on with Mia for a very long time. Things like this, learning to tie your shoe, getting dressed on your own, etc., are natural learning curves that every kid should get to experience, regardless of abilities. It has also helped her fit in more with her peers. She has several friends who are "neuro typical", so she's seen them do things such as use the potty. Seeing her face light up because she feels like she fits in more is just amazing!
DeleteI'm sure Jacoby will get the hang of it soon! Sounds like he has a great family there to support him, and as you know, that is what makes the difference. Knowing that someone believes in him! :)
Very proud of you, Mia!
ReplyDeleteThanks Abby! Mia says "HI!!!" :)
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